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The Connection Deck

Better Questions. Deeper Conversations. Stronger Connections.

Connection begins with curiosity. Whether you're on a road trip, spending time with family, or simply looking for a better conversation, The Connection Deck helps turn ordinary moments into meaningful connections. Pick a category, draw a question, and discover something new about each other.

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How to Play

  • Take Turns. Everyone gets an opportunity to answer.

  • Stay Curious. Listen to understand rather than respond or correct.

  • You Can Pass. No one is required to answer a question.

  • Follow the Conversation. The best questions often lead somewhere unexpected.

  • Connection Over Completion. The goal isn't to finish the deck. It's to get to know each other.

About the Creator

The Connection Deck was created by Dr. Dutch (Dr. Adam R. Hazlett), a humanities professor, author, speaker, and neurodiversity advocate whose work emphasizes understanding others through curiosity rather than judgment.

Read more about the deck and its PB&J philosophy →